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by hur » Thu Dec 02, 2004 5:58 pm
Dear MuslimFirst & BB,
Prostration with the intent (niyyat) of worship if for Allah alone. This is precisely what is called for in the hadiths mentioned. The are many sunni hadiths referencing sujud as'sukar, kissing hands and feet with regards to thanking Allah and respect of the person performed to.
Regarding comments of ziyafat, unfortunately, you have become the kabotar in your preaching of what is happening. Based solely on what you think you know and what others opinions (with the same knowledge). You ever see the cars Sayedna is driven in...who own thems...the person who asked to bring Sayedna to his home for the ziyafat. The costly clothes???? You mean the RS50 slippers, RS500 cotton white kurta, RS350 topi, RS150 tasbih, and RS 25 socks? Is this the costly clothes your talk about? Oh yes and the outrageous living...let's see giving lectures for 2-3hrs, going to everyone and anyone house or other place..because you care of them, giving sabaqs daily, leading prayers at various location daily, and being 93 yrs old...yeah that pretty outrageous lifestyle. Remember he doesn't go clubbing or swimming or lying on the beach or any of the other lifestyles your thinking of. He wear a kurta all day, everyday.
Let me ask you a question...did you think the Dai and his family was poor before he became the Dai? People give him and his family money without question as gifts (najwa). Do you think members family have no idea how to increase the money they have? You talk as they they are just stupid people living off the community. Are you that ignorant of your own clergy and society? Average members of the bohra community have the ability to triple and quadruple their money over a lifetime...why would think the Dai and members of his family don't do the same? The moneys that are given as zakat are used and distributed according to the shariah. If it is not, it is the sin to those who do not spend it as such. We as mumin are required to give zakat to the Imam or his representative (not to who we feel) according to the hadith by Imam Sadiq.
Regarding shaykh title, the term shaykh was and still is used in the arabian penisula for the patriarch or elder leader of a tribe (similar to khan or shah). This was title was typical given to people with various quality: wealthy, diplomat, knowledgeable, army leaders, etc. It was never confined to a religious leaders. You asked for specific hadith, but concept of shaykh was in-grained into the arab society that it was not specifically address (that I could find). Various hadiths refer to old men as shaykhs. Remember the leader of Kuwait, Oman, UAE, are all titled shaykhs..yet have no scholarly background or authorization.
Regarding na mehram, I need to clarify my statements, after reading your reply, I think my words may have been misinterpreted. According to majority of scholars touching the hand or shaking the hand of a non mehram is either allowed or there is no strict opinion taken. There is however a stipulation to this. The hadiths of the Prophet saying men should not look or touch a women infer the act of stimulation, indecency, or to create desire. This is agreed upon by all scholars. The point comes when the Prophet gave allegiance (mithaq or bayt) to women. There are hadiths where the Prophet gave allegiance holding or shaking the womens hands. There are hadiths where he did not touch the women. The analysis is that the act of touching should not promote desire and it is understood that this type of act would not infer desire.
The is another point on this:
It is reported in the two Sahihs that Anas ibn Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) said,
“The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) used to visit Umm Hiram bint Milhan, who would offer him meals. Umm Hiram was the wife of `Ubadah ibn As-Samit. Allah's Messenger once visited her and she provided him with food and started looking for lice in his head. Then Allah's Messenger slept putting his head in her lap, and afterwards woke up smiling. Umm Hiram asked, ‘What causes you to smile, O Allah's Messenger?’ He said, ‘Some of my followers who (in a dream) were presented before me as fighters in Allah's Cause (on board a ship) amidst this sea cause me to smile; they were as kings on thrones …’”
It is determine by these hadiths that interaction with elders who are not mahrem would also fall under this category...because typically interaction and touching of elders doesn't promote desire.
All of this in relation to the Dai apply, when women go give salam and deedar of the Dai..they do so solely to give respects to the Dai as a spirtual leader and spirtual parent, and without the intention of sexual desire. This would be the same for the Dai (or any other clergy) towards the women. I have seen many clergy not do salams to any women as well.
Regarding understanding the Quran, most of these advances sessions where hidden meanings are related are called "tawil sabaqs". You need to attended the basic sabaqs first then attend the tawil sabaqs.
Regarding charity, you can give as much as you want in sadaqah to whomever you want. But zakat is given to the Imam. And if you feel you are being forced to give you zakat..then you either don't understand the real purpose of zakat (purification) or you are deny a pillar of islam. And then think about it..if you deny a pillar of Islam, why would the clergy give you a "safai chitti"?